This article, by Anna Pawley, LMSW, Claire Davis, LICSW-S & Traci Newell, LBSW-S originally appeared in NCFA’s Adoption Advocate publication.
Introduction
Adoption can be a complex subject to discuss for a variety of reasons. Every adoption begins with loss and brings lasting, transformative changes to family dynamics, which makes it a naturally sensitive topic. Additionally, with only 7% of Americans having adopted, it remains a relatively uncommon form of family building, which means the general population is often less knowledgeable about it.[1] As a result, when a family adopts, extended relatives, friends, and members of the broader community may be unsure of how to offer meaningful support.
In addition, questions about the process are likely to arise from friends and family who are less familiar with adoption. Many adoptive parents have experiences where friends or family ask questions or raise topics that feel uncomfortable, confusing, or even hurtful or offensive. Navigating these sensitive topics with our loved ones—and even with our children—can be challenging and requires thoughtful preparation.
This article explores how to prepare, include, and guide extended family and friends in the adoption journey. It will offer strategies to navigate difficult or intrusive conversations, educate others about adoption, and find supportive and meaningful ways to engage loved ones in the adoption experience.
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